When Was the Last Time You Tried Something for the First Time? - Zip Hers

There’s something special about doing something for the first time.

Remember the first time you paddled away from shore in a kayak? Took a trail without knowing exactly what was around the next bend? Slept under the stars? Stood at the top of a climb you weren’t entirely sure you could make?

Firsts have a way of waking us up.

But somewhere between busy schedules, familiar routines, and knowing what we already like, it becomes surprisingly easy to stop having them.

We return to the same trails. Plan the same kinds of weekends. Choose the activities we know we’re good at. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with having favorites—but every once in a while, it feels pretty wonderful to be a beginner again.

And the outdoors gives us endless opportunities to do exactly that.

You Don’t Have to Be an Expert to Belong Outside

Outdoor culture can sometimes make adventure look intimidating.

Scroll through social media and you’ll find people scaling enormous mountains, navigating whitewater, backpacking for days, and tackling adventures that require equipment, training, and experience.

That’s one version of outdoor adventure.

It’s certainly not the only one.

You don't need years of experience or a closet full of specialized gear to try something new outside. You don't even have to be particularly good at it.

You just have to be curious enough to begin.

Maybe you've always wondered what it would feel like to paddle a kayak across a quiet lake. Perhaps you've passed the entrance to a local trail dozens of times without stopping. Maybe you've thought about trying birdwatching, fishing, camping, geocaching, outdoor photography, or a beginner climbing class.

Your first attempt doesn't need to be impressive.

It just needs to be your first.

Why Trying Something New Feels So Good

Familiar activities are comfortable. We know what to expect, what to bring, and what we're capable of doing.

Trying something new gives us something different: discovery.

Suddenly we're paying attention again.

We're learning how to hold the paddle. Looking for the next trail marker. Figuring out which bird keeps making that strange call from the trees. Discovering that setting up a tent is considerably easier when someone actually reads the instructions.

There may be awkward moments. There may even be a few spectacularly unsuccessful ones.

That's part of the fun.

New experiences give us stories to tell, skills to learn, places to discover, and sometimes interests we never expected to have.

They also give us the chance to surprise ourselves.

Adventure Has No Age Limit

One of the best things about trying new outdoor activities is that there isn't a deadline.

You don't need to have started hiking as a child to become a hiker.

You don't need to have spent your twenties camping to sleep under the stars now.

And nobody is checking your birth certificate before handing you a kayak paddle.

Curiosity belongs to everyone.

Our interests, abilities, responsibilities, and priorities naturally change throughout our lives. An adventure that appeals to you today might be completely different from one you would have chosen ten years ago—and that's okay.

The point isn't to recreate some earlier version of yourself.

It's to keep discovering what excites the person you are right now.

Your First Adventure Can Be Small

The word adventure has acquired some rather ambitious expectations.

It doesn't need them.

Trying something new could mean spending an afternoon learning to paddleboard. It could mean walking a trail in a nearby park you've never explored. It could mean downloading a bird identification app and seeing how many species you can spot before lunch.

Your next first might be:

  • Renting a kayak or canoe for an afternoon
  • Trying a beginner-friendly hiking trail
  • Going geocaching
  • Taking an outdoor photography walk
  • Learning to identify local birds, trees, or wildflowers
  • Trying a beginner climbing or bouldering session
  • Taking a guided nature walk
  • Going fishing for the first time
  • Planning your first overnight camping trip
  • Watching a sunrise from somewhere you've never visited
  • Trying snowshoeing or cross-country skiing when winter arrives
  • Exploring a park or conservation area close to home

None of those require you to transform yourself into a different kind of person.

You're simply trying something you haven't done before.

Give Yourself Permission to Be a Beginner

This might be the hardest part.

As adults, we spend a lot of our lives becoming competent.

We know how to do our jobs. We know our routines. We've accumulated experience. Being completely clueless about something can feel strangely uncomfortable.

But beginners get something experts sometimes lose:

permission not to know.

You can ask the obvious question.

You can take your time.

You can laugh when you put something together backward.

You can decide halfway through that this particular activity is absolutely not for you.

Trying something new doesn't create an obligation to become good at it.

Sometimes the result is, I love this. Why didn't I try it sooner?

Sometimes it's, Well, that was interesting.

Both are worthwhile.

Make the Adventure Work for You

Trying something new doesn't mean throwing common sense out the window.

Start at a level that feels approachable. Take a lesson or go with someone experienced when an activity requires it. Bring water, appropriate clothing, sun protection, and whatever else helps you feel comfortable and prepared.

And don't worry about how somebody else would do it.

Take the easier route.

Rent the equipment before buying it.

Book the guided tour.

Take breaks.

Wear clothing that lets you move comfortably and deal with the practical realities of being outdoors.

At ZipHers, we've always believed that the outdoors should feel more accessible to women—not more complicated. Removing even one small obstacle can make it easier to stay outside, explore farther, and enjoy the experience on your own terms.

Adventure isn't a competition.

It's an experience.

Curiosity Is a Pretty Good Compass

We spend plenty of time making lists of things we have to do.

Maybe it's worth keeping another list.

Things you'd simply like to try.

Not someday when you're fitter.

Not when you have more experience.

Not when somebody else volunteers to go first.

Just something that makes you think:

That looks like fun.

Pick one.

Find the beginner version. Invite someone along if you'd like the company—or make it an adventure of your own.

Then put it on the calendar.

Because there are still trails you haven't walked, places you haven't seen, things you haven't learned, and experiences you don't even know you'll love yet.

You don't have to know what you're doing.

You don't have to be the best at it.

You don't have to be a certain age, body type, or kind of woman.

You just have to be willing to try.

So here's the question:

When was the last time you did something for the first time?

And maybe the better question is:

What are you going to try next?

August 06, 2026 — Debbie Mercer

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